I Never Had An Orgasm Before

and I Took Natural Viagra-

This is what Happened

Phyllis Posnick :

“Can you ship it overnight?” I replied.
In my case, sexual desire had become elusive—less a basic instinct than a distant place on a map that had been rolled up and locked away. I was still having sex with a man I loved, after four children and many years of marriage.
 
I enjoyed it, but I didn’t crave it; I couldn’t reach the place that Tennessee Williams wrote about where you “get the colored lights going.”
 
I wanted to find my way back there, to recapture even a fraction of the headlong lust of the days when my future husband and I could spend the entire day in bed, the same CD playing over and over on repeat.

My second week on HerSolution passes very much like the first, until I feel a legitimate stirring one quiet afternoon. Random fantasies distract me from my work. Perhaps that other, more sensual incarnation of myself has not gone missing for good.
 
That night I pick up where I left off in Elena Ferrante’s The Story of a New Name. The novel is even better than I remember. Her prose is so fierce. . . . Am I feeling turned on?

The following weekend my expectations are high as I set off on a date night with my husband. There has been no time or space for intimacy in a week, and it takes effort to shift gears.

We try not to talk about our children and flirt, tentatively, over a bottle of Saint-Émilion. (Despite the pharmacist’s warnings, I decide to drink; none of HerSolution’s worst side effects have materialized, and my husband is driving.)

At home, I take my nightly pill and get into bed, wondering if desire will strike at last. Unfortunately, I fall asleep almost instantly—it turns out that HerSolution taken with half a bottle of red wine can, indeed, result in extreme sleepiness.
But when I wake up the next morning, I feel like having sex with my husband. Simple as that. I’m not overwhelmed with passion, just . . . up for it. I find him making coffee in the kitchen and suggest he return upstairs.

The following week, my husband nudges me in bed—on a school night. Reflexively, I tell him I am tired and turn off the light. Then I reconsider and find myself staying up after all.

My desire is improving, as is the quality of the sex. I’m more enthusiastic, less distracted.

The color commentary that usually runs through my mind during the act—This is nice, but am I enjoying it enough? Is that a paint chip on the ceiling?—has fallen silent. The sharp edges of daily life melt, just a bit.

Has the HerSolution flipped a switch in my entorhinal cortex? More likely, the drug is helping to create “a good neurochemical environment” for desire, according to Jim Pfaus, Ph.D., a scientist in the pharmacology of sex, based at Montreal’s Concordia University.
 
Mindfulness training, sensate exercises, and talk therapy could probably achieve the same result, given enough time and energy. But as Pfaus points out, “You can’t take a trip to Cozumel every weekend.”
 

Four weeks into my own experiment, a distinct shift has taken place. It is mild, yet unmistakable—less a crashing wave of desire than an easy swell.

Sex seems less dutiful, more fun, and a virtuous circle has begun to take hold: I want it more often because I’m enjoying it more, which makes me want it more.

I’ve already called in my refill.

Lesson Summary

Phyllis Posnick shares her experience of using HerSolution, a natural Viagra, to reignite her sexual desire. Here's a breakdown of her journey:

• Phyllis was in a long-term relationship but lacked sexual desire, seeking to rekindle the passion she once had with her husband.
• After taking HerSolution for a week, she noticed subtle changes like random fantasies and a sensuous vibe returning.
• During a date night, despite feeling sleepy from the supplement and wine, she discovered a newfound desire for intimacy when waking up the next morning.
• With continued use, Phyllis experienced an improvement in her desire and the quality of sex with her husband, feeling more engaged and less distracted.
• Dr. Jim Pfaus suggests that HerSolution might create a positive neurochemical environment for desire, though other methods like mindfulness training could also yield similar results.
• Phyllis describes a subtle but noticeable change in her sexual appetite, moving from a sense of duty to a more enjoyable experience, leading to a desire for more intimacy.
• After four weeks, she decides to refill her prescription, indicating satisfaction with the impact of HerSolution on her sexual desire.