My husband wants to have sex. But I think its too much work, I don’t enjoy it
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I’m too self-conscious to do it. I already told him this, but he thinks differently. Should I tell him to stop?
If you never enjoy sex with your husband, there's a problem. So spend some time troubleshooting:
Have you enjoyed sex with anyone else? If so, what's different with your husband?
Did you enjoy sex with your husband in the past? If so, what's different now?
Do you enjoy masturbating? If so, have you shown your husband what feels good for you?
Do you have sexual fantasies? If so, what turns you on? Have you tried incorporating this into sex with your husband?
What do you feel self-conscious about? Your appearance? Not knowing what to do?
Why does sex seem like a lot of work? What exactly are you doing that's so tough? Can you change what you're doing during sex?
Do you feel any desire for your husband?
Have you felt any desire for anyone? If you've never felt sexual desire for anyone, have you considered that you may be asexual?
You might consider seeing a therapist to assist with this troubleshooting.
In the meantime, you'll have to decide if you're willing to have sex even though you apparently don't enjoy it. It sounds like you've been agreeing to it despite your aversion but are getting tired of doing that.
The big issue here is that your husband apparently doesn't care that you don't enjoy it. He's happy to have sex with you even though he knows you find it unpleasant. That says nothing good about him.
Anna Lepeley, PhD, CSCS, CISSN
An exercise and nutrition expert with an extensive background in exercise/nutrition biochemistry
and the science behind libido-enhancing supplements/ingredients.
Anna holds a doctorate in Exercise Biochemistry research from Trident University and specializes
in the physiological and biomechanical aspects behind libido and physical sexual performance, respectively,
Anna has been analyzing research and scientific literature examining the sexual arousal potential influenced by nutraceutical
and dietary supplements for over eight years.
As a keynote speaker, Anna has presented at numerous conferences, dispelling the myths behind purported aphrodisiacs
and ingredients of libido-enhancement products. Anna has also worked for libido-enhancing supplement companies,
legitimizing the ingredients with scientific research and translating the mechanism behind ingredients' efficacy for general
populations.
Dr. Karen Vieira, PhD, MSM
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If you're concerned about potential health risks or conflicts with other medications you may be taking, please speak with your doctor
12. Is HerSolution™ safe if I'm trying to get pregnant?
You should always check with your medical practitioner regarding any supplements or medications you are taking when trying to get pregnant or during pregnancy – even vitamins!
